If You Don't Have Something Nice to Say...

Remember being told "If you don't have something nice to say, then it's best you don't say anything at all." ?? That my friends, is one of the best pieces of advice in our day. The truth is, most people don't follow that concept and wonder why their life feels as hard as it does.

When we complain, gossip, or simply speak negatively to someone else, one of two things will happen. The other person will agree with what we are saying or they will disagree. Here's the rub:

If they agree with what we are saying, it adds power to the negative thought we've put out therefore beginning a vibration that will attract to us more negative circumstances. Not too good, huh?

If they disagree with what we are saying then we get more passionate about the thought we had and feel much more strongly about the negative thought we expressed, which also begins a vibrations that attracts more negative circumstances. Not too good there, either.

So bottom line is, negative statements about people, places, or things only bring about negative circumstances. They never cause us to feel good, therefore they keep us in the vibrational match of attracting situations that are also not good. The good news is, we don't have to change who we are fundamentally. We just have to let go of the negative thoughts. There is simply no need to take a course on goal setting and positive affirmations and then spend hours on the practise itself. All that is needed is to release the negative thought, absolutely don't share it, and picture your mind on something, ANYTHING, positive.

When you begin to do this more and more often, you become accustomed to the positive vibrational frequencies you are emitting, therefore attracting to you more and more positive events. Sounds like a great trade off, doesn't it?

THINK BIG!